It is so obviously hormone related since it's worse in the morning and best in the evening. This defeats the goal of using feeling statements. She will be ok but it's going to be a long drawn out legal battle as the driver fled and his best friend died. this sounds like me also, and gotten even worst with this scary virus!! Praying like you that this is just another "symptom" and not cancer. I have aches and pains all over my body hot and cold all night I cant sleep headaches all the time dizzy tired pain in my left side it feels and sounds like the rib pain you ladies were speaking of but just sore every morning waking up feeling like doom its driving me crazy and its hard to talk to anyone about it thats not going through it because they just think that theres something wrong with you or youre having anxiety but its way much much deeper than that, but the dry mouth and the dry eyes and pain in the body is what is bothering me the most besides everything else I dont even look the same when I look in the mirror I feel like Im somebody else like everything is changed and Im not the same person I was just a year ago I have to fix this I pray on it I buy things to make me feel better and they dont but Im going to find a way to fix this I have to oh and I cant forget the buzzing in my ears Ive never experienced anything so horrible in my life all of this is just horrific but Im going to pray about it and Im definitely going to get better I have to. I cant winlol! The use of "you language" opposed to "I language" makes it more likely that this conversation disintegrated into a full-blown argument, leaving no one feeling particularly good. Patient aims to help the world proactively manage its healthcare, supplying evidence-based information on a wide range of medical and health topics to patients and health professionals. Hope to hear back from you to see if you ever dealt with the reflux and difficulty burping. my nausea was about once a month for over a year. I have never been a "moaner". 'I feel' statements are a way of communicating the speaker's feelings or beliefs. Hi Mary, sorry youre going through this as well I do have other symptoms like digestive issues, sore breasts, joint issues, itching under my skin, and constipation too. I took a 5mg valium and jumped in my car and drove to the vicinity of the hospital thinking I'm going to get a heart attack and die making several rounds on the block without going in! Should not be any higher than 30. It does not burn when I pee and this too comes and goes. I am sorry you are feeling this way too. I am a believer in God/Jesus as well and He is my Saviour! Today I felt normal! It would really make me feel better if you could help me with this.". I've had perimenopause for the last two years. i can totally picture myself doing this! I feel hungry but nauseated at the same time. How Much Relationship Privacy Do You Need? Erin Johnston, LCSW is a therapist, counselor, coach, and mediator with a private practice in Chicago, Illinois. I'm working with two therapists and a behavioral specialist to help me out of this. Its supposed to be a bone/liver blood marker. While it can be a bit challenging at first, you may find that this approach becomes more natural over time. Premarin and yes, i know about the mares I wanted to try this first as it got more good reviews than Estrace . Take care! I've had this for the last 3 months. Can I ask which menopause supplements are you taking? Thank you for your response , The gastro advises me after taking the antibiotics for Sibo then do food map diet and take one of the PPI omeprazole along probiotic and see if it gets better then if not they will ck my acid level by inserting a tube as you said sometimes we have low acid . I did need to start taking medication, but I don't want to be on it. Maybe I do but i still should be heard by them even if im wrong about my health. Anyway she says to throw away the applicator to the vaginal estrogen. Don't really bother me but do any of you ladies have this awful nausea? Hi Sherrici I'm so sorry that you are going through this also, no you are definately not imaging these symptoms. they reassured me they are fine and this too shall pass. I'm having the same problems with my liver.My Alp is 150 and I'm getting test done next week and google has scared the crap out of me. My Alp levels came back elevated for the first time ever at 128. Then it will go away and come back. I would so love to meet some of you ladies. I also have developed a health anxiety. Honestly it's terrible. im worrying about everything, kids, my health !! Its so scary. I so hate that this happening!!! Our website is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. I don't have a cold or asthma. Then once I've calm down I drive myself back home. Hello, please can someone help to ease the absolute terror I have that I've got some terrible neurological disease? Hello Sasical hope this email finds you well . I did many tests what i know is i have Gerd . Meticulously curated television underscore. I feel like I'm on another planet , the skin zapping! appropriate medical assistance immediately. i also take a variety of supplements- calcium, b, d, probiotic, etc and my husband is thinking i'm a hypochondriac! are you drinking plenty of water? sending lots of hugs to you all feeling the same way xx. VERY scary. one of a million new and strange things that's happened to me that I didnt have an actual term for. Uggh.. it is really getting to me. i am at the end of my rope. Used correctly, they can remove an accusatory tone in the speaker's statements and allow people to express their point without getting a defensive reaction. Erin Johnston, LCSW is a therapist, counselor, coach, and mediator with a private practice in Chicago, Illinois. Another way to say I Feel? Its only supposed to be 39-115. I absolutely agree with everything that you said. God bless . hi just ready all glory to god , bit I'm in a constant battle everyday I have some many things that's physical wrong with me , for aches pains to cramps tingling numbing surges of pain in bust hip aches groin pains back aches, stiff neck back of head shoulders weird headaches , light-headedness sometimes like I'm just floating ,it's a daily constant battle, I went through some really dark times in my mind and tried hrt but think that caused more light-headedness palpitations dropping in BP heart rate , had ecg done that's OK so just stopped taking it , but still constant feel ill daily , and now I have been called back for further testing following a mammogram, so I am all over the show , then I have to get down and seek God, because that's all I can do . Right now my biggest symptom is my bladder. It's hard to explain. I have always been bubbly and positive. I can hardly get through my day. 348 users are following. But be reassured you really are ok. Hormones effect every part of our body and it's normal. I also have my digestive woes like you so you are definitely not alone. im with you getting down and seeking God is the only thing i need too God is in control of our health . Are you totally cured from sibo and feel totally healthy ? WHY did I say that? Yes, I found the oregano oil to be very effective but when I took it I was also on a very strict low fodmap diet ant I think I was also taking something to increase acid production in the stomach, because she said that a lot of times when we think we have acid it is in fact the other way round, that we have low acid, I can't remember the name sorry (pepsin?). I feel sick all the time. She has excellent reviews. prayers and support. I am hoping its vaginal atrophy or stress b ecause i can deal with that a lot easier because it is reversible. We sound like sisters from another mister (lol). The health anxiety I have developed is almost paralysing. Other researchers have found that couples that utilize "you" language during conflict discussions have less effective interactions. I never use to be like this. It was horrible but it has gotten alot better. Just a suggestion. These Drs truly dont listen heck the emts mentioned menopause. hello I have had the same dry mouth burning tongue, its hard for me to eat it drives me crazy I am 54 years old I had a hysterectomy about a year and a half ago but I still have my ovaries right after my 54th birthday all of these things just kicked in at once. I've had it all my life, but it's really flared up now with the perimenopause. I really hope everyone feels better soon! Consenting to these technologies will allow us to process data such as browsing behavior or unique IDs on this site. So happy to have found this site, I finally don't feel so alone. I'd also love to hear from anybody else going through the same. They put it down to diverticulitis, which of course can cause digestive issues too. "I feel" statements should state how the speaker is feeling, the cause of that feeling, and a potential solution. I think in part He is what led me to the menopause boards!. I am also going a lot it seems. I apparently have fatty liver but ALP levels arent singularly raised. have you ever been given an explanation? error404,theme-capri,qode-core-2.1.1,select-core-2.1.1,woocommerce-no-js,ajax_fade,page_not_loaded,,capri-ver-3.3, vertical_menu_background_opacity, vertical_menu_with_scroll,smooth_scroll,no_animation_on_touch,fade_push_text_top,paspartu_enabled,woocommerce_installed,blog_installed,wpb-js-composer js-comp-ver-6.4.2,vc_responsive. I have had the latter periodically since starting peri-menopause 3yrs ago. Hi Sherriel - I had the same bladder pressure issue. Good luck to us ! I understand the confusion between peri symptoms and recovering from Covid. I hear you. I take a low dose of propanolol with no side effects and it does help. I treated mine following a low fodmap diet and taking oil of oregano which is a natural antibiotic, msybe you could ask your integrative doctor about this. 7th ed. I am 53, 3 years no period and at first I was like "this is a piece of cake". The doctors didnt have an answer as to why so thats what got me googling which led to my health anxiety. Gross as they are, I was relieve that was all it was. I'm very thankful for your post because now I know I'm not alone. plus some strange behavior where I'd look back and think, WHY did I do that? I have had it for YEARS (and I mean YEARS) so if THAT was anything, I would be dead by now! Thank God autoimmune diseases have been ruled out. i have been turning to God also. How is taking proprabolol ? I-messages can vary in terms of how they are formed and utilized, and they don't necessarily need to begin with the words, "I feel." I've so been there. Im going to talk to the menopause expert at the doctors office about it. Many articles say to get checked out for serious causes from this, but I've had 2 CT scans for it over the years an I'm sure something would have been found. It is so hard to get through both of these things at the same time. You mentioned you had pressure. I am so sorry I just seen this. I am a member of other menopausal chatrooms too. I'm here for you if you need to talk, Hi Viola, I was afraid this thread was dead since the last entry was 6 weeks ago but still wanted to give it a shot. 5 Signs of an Energy Vampire and How to Cope, Effects of Conflict and Stress on Relationships, Relationship Emotions: How to Express Feelings in a Relationship, How Nitpicking Can Damage Your Relationship, How to Improve Your Relationships With Effective Communication Skills, Newlywed Advice: Tips for New Married Couples, Daily Tips for a Healthy Mind to Your Inbox, I understand you feel that way, but I feel this way: the benefits of I-language and communicating perspective during conflict, What a difference a pronoun makes: i/we versus you/me and worried couples perceptions of their interaction quality, Journal of Language and Social Psychology. I have had every test you can think of as well and feel the same as you. Just had mild hot flashes, periods all over the place and that was about it. We should have (when COVID is over) a national menopause convention like in Las Vegas. It is not all the time but it seems to hit me every few months and lasts for about a week. drinking ensure and weight gain powder blended mixes. By clicking Accept All Cookies, you agree to the storing of cookies on your device to enhance site navigation, analyze site usage, and assist in our marketing efforts. When one person is communicating in a way that is non-confrontational and emotion-focused, the listeners are more likely to match their own responses to that of the speaker. Mine is like you said with the upper stomach. I was fine before. I'm praying every day. i did speak to a therapist about it which really helped and i told my parents. Not sure if i mentioned it earlier but one of my worse symptoms is the bladder pressure. have had periods off/on during course of last 3 years --- during which hospitalized twice for extreme nausea, dry heaving and dehydration. Now, anxiety has crept its way back in and is working over my meds, even stronger. However, regularly feeling misunderstood can be a sign of a need to work on communication skills. It can cause dryness, itching, burning, painful intercourse and can also cause unpleasant urinary symptoms. Afraid that my insurance would deny the payment of the colonoscopy after I had it done (no prior authorization needed and I am not 50 or older), I decided to wait my symptoms out and sure enough, they have improved. My gynecologist did it the same time as he did my pap. This of course made me very cranky. These feelings statements are a powerful communication tool. I have been like this for 3 years and I'm finding it harder and harder to cope. Could this be hormones? Unfortunately i noticed changes in my body and went on line to look for answers. Couples who are in conflict often find themselves blaming one another for the problems they are facing. I have had the same thing for 2 months now plus digestive issues and no explanation from the GP. I dont hardly have it anymore. Omg. Its awful and i dont know if things are going to magically settle down after im post menopause. Do you ever resolve that issue? i wake up at 5am feeling so sick. Fear to be alone and hard to be with my husband too. ya the sore throat really started freaking me out , I've read where everyone said do avoid sweets , dairy , and caffeine, so I have been and have started eating spinach and vegetables and trying to get to a healthier weight , and wasn't feeling to bad today so I thought I'd try a diet coke to see if it actually did effect my symptoms and sure enough it did not even a hr after drinking it my throat has started hurting , feel like I have a vice script on my head moreless pressure , and right lower rib started hurting again , so needless to say there will be no more caffeine in my future , I've went as far as going to cvs and buying a rapid std test because my doctors and everyone says that I'm fine even though I was checked 3 yrs ago and haven't bee. Don't worry about your bladder it will go away eventually. No cancer or ulcer found, thank God! has anyone else felt this and any relief or diagnosis? you name it,! Have you received any diagnosis for what causes these symptoms? The use of I-messages is also more likely to evoke feelings of empathy, cooperation, and openness to negotiation in listeners. All my children have grown up and move away. Neck pain, Overwhelming feeling doom, I panic jump in my car drove near the hospital which is 10minutrs drive from my house. I am so thankful to know i am not alone. We will get through this together/apart and I can't tell you (to the moderators) how much I personally appreciate this forum.It has some nights made the difference of me going to sleep with peace of mind I am not alone! Then I was off balance at times. My stomach has been the worst acid reflux, bloating and major heartburn had an endoscopy too. So weird. I wouldn't say I'm 100% cured because I still have some issues now and again but I am so much better. I am the caretaker in my house. Thank you In advance . Hi I know this post was some time ago. "I feel" statements communicate how a speaker feels to help minimize defensiveness and conflict in conversations. but i have had every fear under the sun. It's frightening and debilitatingthe crying, the anxiousness coursing through me, the nausea, the panic attacks all night long. It happened twice. Every day I wake up saying I am going to be strong but then another symptom appears! It also covers how people can use these feeling statements and potential mistakes to watch for. I-messages can also be a helpful way to provide constructive feedback to other people. Thank goodness for your reply. i have been post menopause since 2015. It would last a few days each month and I had to make myself eat. My doctor thinks I am a hypochondriac (and lately I would have to agree). I use calendula every morning. Hi Leisa: im now about 2 weeks post. I also just underwent several tests for digestive issues. I suffer terrible medical anxiety so understand what you are going through. I've been in perimenopause for five years now, but this fear and anxiety started this year, now with the lockdown and Covid19 it's even harder for me. Starts off with a headache and nausea like morning sickness! When people talk about feelings, they often have a tendency to assign blame first while downplaying the feeling. While there is no guarantee that the other person will respond in a receptive way, using feeling statements can minimize the risk that the conversation will devolve into hostility and argumentativeness. I also feel nervous and jittery. and Privacy Policy and steps will be taken to remove posts identified Just let me know if you have any questions. The doctors had no idea what the problem was. Two different meds, for this, and neither one helped. Im 56 and post menopause.My doctor is going to retest in 3 months but ive been googling and now Im worried out of my mind! I just turned 53 and have been post-menopausal for almost 2 years. I hope that reassures you a bit. I dont have too much longer, God willing! April 15, 2020 will hopefully be my new day! Hang in there ladies. Finally, a solution should be given. I also have a lot of bladder problems, urgency pressure. I am 49 and I swear this hit me overnight. I am not bleeding, no heart burn, not bloated, not gaining or losing any weight just the occasional nausea which has been going on for years. Misunderstandings in relationships happen to everyone. Hi Sian, i also had endometrial polyps. I feel so connected to you all..will be 51 this April and in constant turmoilI'm also on propranolol for a anxiety.. Peri and meno didn't get me, postmeno is what's killing me. Thinking of you too! i have severe nausea, ear ringing, and every other horrible symptom. so sick of the bloating, sickness and flatulence! i have not had a period in three months and since december ive had a feeling of inflamation and pain on my right flank. Patient is a UK registered trade mark. I would advise you to stop, I did it so much that I had severe health anxiety. I've had bloods and ECG done - all normal but I plan to speak to my GP about the stomach/flank symptoms. This Corona Virus lockdown is not helping either. My shoulder blade and ear and throat pain have gotten better and I was feeling pretty good and now I'm having alot of acid relux and feeling like I need to burp and cant. My head hurts all the way down through my neck! The GP says my eustachian tubes are retracted but no matter how much steroid nasal spray I use, the pressure is there. Rocking sensation, like I'm swaying. I used to get naseau but not very often now. When i had bloodwork again in August, 2019 i found out it was elevated. I am 67 and started these symptoms in April after my doctor and I determined that it was not a good idea to still be on HRT at my age. It's hard to think positive, I mean really hard, and we end up wallowing in self pity and just feeling sorry for ourselves. have you had any tests? The technical storage or access that is used exclusively for statistical purposes. feeling scared and depressed..hope things will get better for everyone soon! im tired of being sick im praying hard to have helthy day and restful night . What next! yes I'm the same. Wow, this comment is so relatable. I-language may help individuals become more receptive to feedback. Dr. ruled out ear infection. I feel for you, because I am feeling the same way. I have also had the urinary issues, mine lasted for about 8 months and seem to have tapered off just as some of my other peri symptoms have acted up again. Strangely I don't have hot flashes yet but I'm sure they are around the corner. I think my bladder and digestive issues are the biggest problem causing my health anxiety. Is it possible to feel like crap 80% of the month? We are strong women and our bodies go through so much (bleed like a stuck pig for decades of our life, push amazing objects our of us the size of an average bowling ball then try and figure out what to do with this object for the next 18 years cuz the little suckers don't come with handbooks, our bodies are dis-figured and scared out of love, then we go through THIS - lol). Without a subpoena, voluntary compliance on the part of your Internet Service Provider, or additional records from a third party, information stored or retrieved for this purpose alone cannot usually be used to identify you. I feel like under the possession of an evil force. I am 54 and don't want to go onto HRT hoping things will start to ease now I have gone for a year without a period, wishful thinking! its all a mind game but one in which we might need help to get thru. The offers that appear in this table are from partnerships from which Verywell Mind receives compensation. There is no shame in taking medications when you need them. Always speak to your doctor before acting and in cases of emergency seek Ideally, this allows the other person to concentrate on helping to alleviate the discomfort, rather than defending themselves. I am supposed to see a rheumatologist on Feb 14. I have another appointment in March with another doctor in the same practice and will ask her about my lining and if everything is ok now. Take Care. 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